How to Change Your Last Name

You signed your marriage certificate with your new last name, but sorry to break it to you – your last name isn’t legally changed. We’ve simplified the steps and created the list below to help guide you along the process. However, the time commitment and confusion of changing your name can be overwhelming, but that’s why HitchSwitchwas created to help!


1.    Marriage License
Once you file for your marriage license and complete the ceremony (YAY!) you’ll receive your certified marriage certificate, in the mail approximately 10 to 15 days after you wedding.

You need your marriage certificate in hand to complete the steps below.  

2.   Social Security
This is what HitchSwitch refers to as the “gateway step”. Visit the United States Social Security Administration website and complete the SS-5. HitchSwitch suggests you take the application to your local Social Security office, as the update happens within 24 hours. Alternately, please note that everything can be sent through the mail if so desired.

3.   Passport
There are a few different cases in changing your name on your passport and all the possible documents can be found on the U.S. Passport and International Travel pageon the Department of State website.

Use the…

DS-5504: If it is less than a year since you updated your Passport

DS-82: If it has been more than a year

DS- 11: If you are a first time applicant, or if your passport was lost, stolen, etc.

You’ll need a new passport photo (taken within the last 6 months) and must include it on your application when applying for a new or updated passport.

4.   Change Your Driver’s License
Head down to the local DMV with your new social security card, your old license, your certified marriage certificate, and anything else stated on the requirements from your state (found online).

5.    Everything else!
–       Credit Cards
–       Club Memberships
–       Address/Post Office
–       Utilities
–       Doctor’s Office
–       Alumni Associations
–       The List goes on!

Overwhelmed? Confused? Don’t know where to start? Simplify your name change and visit  HitchSwitch– they’ll be able to help!

New Study Says More Women Are Keeping Their Maiden Names

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Guess what? New York Times's data blog, The Upshot, is reporting that women are keeping their maiden names more often than they used to be. "Roughly 20 percent of women married in recent years," says The Upshot, "have kept their names according to a Google Consumer Survey."

Even though this trend is on the uptick, our comprehensive survey study of couples who have gotten married in the past year says the (overwhelming) majority of women still choose to change their last names. In fact, our study shows that only 10 percent of women change their names, while four percent hyphenate and five percent combine names without hyphenating. (The Upshot reports their numbers as 10 percent of women choosing to hyphenate or change their name legally while still going by their maiden names professionally.) According to our data, 80 percent of brides still choose to change their names after the wedding, both professionally and legally. But, we have seen an overall decline in that number, as our survey results from 2009 show that 86 percent of brides changed their last names post-wedding.

There could be a few items at play in the differences in numbers. The Knot boasts the largest wedding study, but The Upshot's data comes from Google Consumer reports. The Knot's survey omits couples who have eloped or married in a courthouse, a subset of couples who might be more prone to keeping their last names, just because the rest of our data is all about the costs of the ceremony and reception details.

Here at The Knot, we have editors who have chosen to change their names and take the names of their new spouses and we'd say there's no "right" answer to this question other than how it makes you feel! Want to change your name? We'll show you the easiest way to do it. Want to keep what you've grown up with? Go for it. There are tons of good reasons for both sides of the scale, not to mention celebrity examples on either point of the argument (Hi, Amal Clooney, Kim Kardashian -- a la Kris Humphries era -- and Kim Kardashian West -- a la Kanye.) The only thing that matters is that the name you choose feels right to you.