Tuesday, October 18, 2016

Pre-Wedding Alternative Beauty Practices Every Bride-to-be Needs to Know About



Pre-Wedding Beauty Why Meditation Is Beneficial
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Until you're a bride in the throes of planning a wedding you can never understand the unique blend of anticipation, anxiety and, more than anything, stress. Will it all go as planned? What's the worst-case scenario? What if I don't fit into the dress? There might be nightmares and waking daydreams. Consistent exercise is one way to combat the butterflies, and yoga is a wonderful practice to help soothe and calm the mind and nerves, while improving one's posture for that strapless gown. In addition to those more run-of-the-mill coping mechanisms are some alternative, in some cases New Age-y, practices worth considering — like meditation.

Meditation might already be in the wheelhouse of more tapped-in brides, and it's a good idea for everybody. There's nothing better for your wellbeing than quieting the mind and clearing away all the clutter. There are countless apps that guide the user through quick or longer meditations, and many major cities now have chic studios aimed at doing the same—check out the wide-ranging classes at MNDFL in New York's Greenwich Village, or Unplug in Brentwood (LA). Unplug is also where you can find Scott Schwenk, a healer and breath work guru whose sessions in the latter practice can be game-changing. The breathing exercises done in his classes, lying on a cushion in a dark room, are quite rigorous, but worth the work. You may feel a tingling, vibrating sensation take over your body (and sometimes tears), and a release like you've never known. Increased energy is also a side effect—a benefit for worn-down brides!

A spa day with a massage is always a treat leading up to the big day, but the effects often feel too short-lived. Yamuna Body Rolling is a holistic method employing rubber balls in varying sizes that has practitioners across the country. It's like a light workout and massage in one—the balls stimulates and create space around the joints and specific muscles. Not only does it feel amazing (and only occasionally uncomfortable, where there's lots of tension) but it's known to elongate the body, increase muscle tone, improve alignment (again with the posture!) and for some has decreased the appearance of cellulite.


Another technique that can assist in smoothing cellulite—and what bride-to-be doesn't want that?!—is consistent use of a cryosauna, a chamber that is cooled with liquid nitrogen to negative 250 degrees fahrenheit, with a completely nude person inside (except for socks and gloves). The frigid yet quick (2-3 minutes) experience can reduce inflammation, anxiety and headaches, and boost energy and improve sleep. Instead of freezing, one can also float to deeply relax, relieve stress and pain, and increase endorphins.

Sensory deprivation float tanks (like those at Pause in Venice, CA) give you an hour of complete quiet while you float nude in a darkened pod filled with super salty water, an environment that causes the brain to give out alpha waves that promote relaxation and meditation. Finally, there's simple female camaraderie. In Venice, doula Paula Mallis hosts new moon and full moon circles on a regular basis. At them, chic, conscious women sit in a circle and discuss the coming stage of the moon and talk intention-setting and manifestation. There could be revelations, tears or laughter along with the good old-fashioned girl talk, and that's practically guaranteed to relieve a little stress.

Monday, October 17, 2016

14 Husbands And Wives Reveal The Best Thing About Married Sex

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Sex after marriage isn’t as much of a snoozefest as you might think. 
Life gets busy, people get tired and sometimes sex just isn’t high on the priority list for married couples ― especially those who have been together a long time.
Though there’s no “normal” when it comes to how often spouses get it on, some couples make their time between the sheets a regular part of their relationship. Oh, and they enjoy the hell out of it too. Below, 14 people on the secret-sharing app Whisper open up about the saucier side of sex after marriage.

6 Ways to Make Sure Your Black-Tie Wedding Décor Is Anything But Boring

black tie wedding with color ideas
Photo: Getty Images
 
Does a black tie wedding bring to mind images of crisp black and white, soft gold, and maybe a little blush for good measure? While this timeless palette isn't going anywhere, keeping things subdued isn't your only option! If you're a couple who loves playful color, but still wants to mark their marriage with a formal celebration, you're in luck. We spoke to top wedding planners from across the country, and they've filled us in on some fun and exciting ways to use vibrant hues and set a black tie dress code. Your inspiration awaits!

Turn to Flowers
"This might seem like an obvious choice, but so many couples equate 'black tie' or timelessness with an all-white wedding. That doesn't have to be the case!" says Gretchen Culver, owner and lead planner of Rocket Science Weddings & Events. "I love using colorful flowers to create a high-end yet inviting wedding." She uses style and scale to dictate the feel. "Instead of the more natural, organic feel that is so popular right now (but can feel a bit casual), have your designer or florist create arrangements that are more tailored. This will automatically create a sense of formality, no matter what colors you are working with." Culver also advises using minimal greenery as filler, instead focusing on lots of blooms with a variety of textures in the palette you've chosen. Then, place the arrangements on neutral-colored linens to allow the centerpieces to really shine. "Mix in lots of candles and votives, rather than artificial colored light, to keep the look classy. Natural white or candlelight will highlight the colors in the flowers instead of masking or changing them."

Play with Paper
Don't want bold hues all over your design? "Keep it more selective by incorporating color into your invitation and day-of paper materials," advises Jesse Tombs, managing partner of Alison Events. "You can keep it classic by adding a bright edge to thick card stock, or use colorful calligraphy on the outer envelope." Tombs is also a fan of weaving in metallics. "Silver, gold, copper and bronze are great, more traditional colors that will add some sparkle to a black tie invitation." You could also weave in natural elements to add an organic hint of color, such as slate, moss, or wood. Culver also recommends mixing in colored paper elements, such as an envelope liner or a colored envelope. "You can keep the wedding invitation traditional, with black letterpress on white paper, but tie it with a colored ribbon and mail it in a coordinating envelope," she explains. "A little color in the invitation will set the stage for you to incorporate color into your wedding décor."

Vary the Shades
"One really great way to dress up bright colors is to use a single color in varying shades," says Jenna Lam of Jenna Lam Events. "For example, we recently designed a wedding at the Parker Palm Springs where we started with bold coral peonies in the centerpieces, then brought in blush and lighter pink roses to keep the overall look sophisticated." She also added blush to the tablecloths, continuing the nearly monochromatic look. "I also recommend adding metallic accents, like gold Limoges plates and flatware, to keep the look glamorous," says Lam.

Opt for Soft Hues
Worried that incorporating punchy colors might come across as too playful? You can still add plenty of colors and still stick to soft pastels. "For example, instead of a saturated orange or turmeric color, consider light peach. And instead of electric lemon, turn to a buttery yellow color to add brightness," Tombs explains. "Softer colors work really great with neutral and organic palettes, and will still pop with black and white color schemes."


Don't Forget Rentals!
If you do decide you'd rather stick to that more traditional all-white palette for your flowers, Tombs suggests getting creative with the vessels. "You could ask your florist to incorporate colorful vases, or surround the white arrangements with colored candles. You can get taper candles in every color under the sun — and at a great price. It's an inexpensive way to add your favorite hue and a beautiful glow."

Dress the Part
"An instant way to add a pop of color without losing the formality of your event is to dress your bridesmaids in floor-length formal gowns in a vibrant color," says Culver. "Choose a fabric and silhouette that will feel inherently black tie appropriate, and accent the men in a matching color as well." She advises sticking to a classic black bowtie, then tucking a colorful pocket square into their tuxedo jackets for a hint of color that isn't over the top. "And if you're feeling fun, have them wear colorful socks, too!"

Friday, October 14, 2016

7 Tips For Newlyweds Setting Up Their First Home

7 Tips For Newlyweds Setting Up Their First Home
We asked the very talented Christian Zavala of Zavala Interiors for some interior design advice and his 7 tips he would give newlyweds to help them decorate their new home. With over 10 years of experience creating chic and beautiful homes for his clientele, Christian has created a style that is contemporary, yet metropolitan, sophisticated, yet comfortable, and above all, classically “now.”
Christian tells us, “Aspire to create an experience that you and your partner will look forward to coming home to. You are now home - your nest, your sanctuary away from the rest of the world. Home should make you happy and at ease. I’ve worked with so many couples in my career and I have found that they are most pleased when the overall design is a reflection of the both of them. Create a collection of inspirational images to help you build your project mood board, which will help you have a clear idea of what you want to accomplish. I collect magazine clippings and have a collection of images on Pinterest too!”

Here are Christian’s 7 tips for newlyweds who are setting up their first home (besides hiring an interior designer!)

1. Create A Color Story
Maybe even use your wedding accent colors to always remind you of your special day! Remember, colors are powerful. They make you feel certain feelings, so use them wisely, unless you want to go very bold! Flowers are also a great way to incorporate your color scheme that you can have fun with seasonally. Commit to the execution, but don't go overboard. If you think, “is this too crazy?” then it probably is, so try to scale back.

2. Furniture: The Meat & Potatoes Of Design
Pick out comfortable yet stylish seating... Aim to buy more classic timeless pieces that you could grow with as you change styles. Since you’re doing this on your own, I would also advise that you try to keep your wood furniture to the same color stain within a room, as well as your metal accent colors. These can change from room to room, but will ensure a sense of cohesiveness. Also keep in mind the guests you will be entertaining. You want your furniture to be resilient after a party or little get together. Your furniture should give your room a natural flow of traffic. You wouldn't want to walk into a room and immediately be met with the back of a sofa - that creates a halt and an obstacle to enter a room - the idea is to make it inviting.



3. Let’s Talk Lighting!
Dimmers make everything sexy, so you should install one at every switch. Stay far, far away from harsh lighting. A ‘soft white’ or Edison style bulb always give a nicer light that is enjoyable turned up or dimmed down. There are some amazing and affordable lighting fixtures available today that can really add impact to the space. Do yourself a favor and when your budget allows, upgrade the “contractor grade” fixtures that came with your home. This little change can make a big difference.



4. Rugs Tie Your Design Together
Rugs can incorporate color and texture into your design scheme. Plus, not only do they add comfort when lounging, they can also warm up a room and define a space within an open floor plan. Another bonus to bringing in rugs is that they help with the acoustics of your home by absorbing sound. But - be sure to buy the right size! There’s nothing worse than buying a rug that is too small.

5. All About Accessories
Your decorative accessories are reflection of who you and your partner are individually and as a couple. They can illustrate a story of your lives, showcase a collection of your travels, or be the finishing touches that help complete your design scheme. Remember to edit your collections and place them well, without creating a cluttered look. For example, if you collect crystal stones, place your favorite few on display while the rest remain put away. Switch out with the seasons  to refresh so you can enjoy all the pieces over time.



6. Create Little “Moments”
Moments bring focus to areas that are not a room, but add value and thoughtfulness to your design. Take a console table at the end of a hall – add a vase, flowers, a candle, a couple decorative accessories and art or a collage of family pictures on a wall. This will create a scene instead of just a random smattering of objects. Or consider the corner a staircase landing – fill this space with a collection of lanterns to fill the space and bring character to an otherwise lifeless space.

7. Pick The Right Registry
Since the wedding registry is a big part of your big day, register for items that are indicative of your lifestyle. Don’t register for formal china if you plan on entertaining casually. These are the items that will bring your home to life and determine how you will both live and entertain. It’s important to remember the small things too, like a martini shaker and glasses or fragrant candles.



As a last piece of advice, “Think like a professional! Always take photos, jot down notes, and measure everything. Keep these images, notes, color swatches, and measurements together, like you would a wedding planner binder! Nothing worse than not being able to bring in something because it didn't fit through the door way, elevator or staircase… not to mention a mistake like this could be costly!”

Thursday, October 13, 2016

12 Tiny Wedding Treats That Will Satisfy Big-Time

12 Tiny Wedding Treats That Will Satisfy Big-Time
Let’s face the facts – your guests are probably just as excited to know what’s going to be on the menu as they are to see you walk down the aisle. That being said, it is important to pay careful attention to your wedding day dishes! Right now, we are loving the idea of mini food items that will not only look adorable but also taste amazing too! We did some serious brainstorming and came up with a list of our top 12 favorite tiny yet undeniably tasty treats. Enjoy!

1. Fun-Sized French Fry Cones
Your guests will love feasting on these salty snacks between frequent trips to the dance floor. We like to think of it as fast-food service without the guilt!  
Photo by Jose Villa; Catering by The Food Matters
 
Photo by Rebecca Yale Photography; Food by Real Food Catering
2. Petite Pancakes
Breakfast is a good idea at any time of day! These bite-sized breakfast plates are sure to put a smile on everyone’s face.  
Photo by Ifong Chen; Food by Feast Catering Company
 
Photo by Moncrief Photography
3. Chicken & Waffle Sliders 
We know, it might sound a bit bold, but trust us – this salty and sweet appetizer is going to be a hit! Mini chicken tenders sandwiched in between crispy waffles and drizzled with warm syrup… Yum!  
Photo by The Reason Photography; Catering by Fancy Girl Table
 
Recipe by Food Folks & Fun
4. Tiny Tossed Salads
For guests who would opt for a healthier meal, these little salads will be legendary. Toss them with your favorite dressing and voila!  
Recipe by My Baking Addiction
 
Photo by Maggie Russo Photo; Styling by Saradest
5. Mini Mashed Potatoes
Mashed potatoes, bacon bits, cheese, and sour cream - need we say more? These classic martini glasses have been transformed into everyone’s favorite comfort food delight.
6. Baby Shrimp Cocktails
The colors of this dish are so eye-catching! An individual order of shrimp cocktail is simple and seamless, so guests can munch as they mingle.  
Photo by Lauren Kinsey Photography
 
Courtesy by Joe and Sue
7. Teeny Grilled Cheeses 
Bring your guests back to their good old childhood days with these teeny grilled cheeses - and keep ‘em coming!   
Photo by Kelly Dillon Photography

8. Simple Spaghetti Twists
You can’t go wrong with this Italian classic. These spaghetti sticks are easy to make and even easier to love
 
Recipe by Dallas News
9. Tiny Seven Layer Dips
Tacos are a definite crowd pleaser! This mini dish will be just the right amount to hold your guests over during cocktail hour before the reception begins.
 
Recipe by Pink Pistachio
10. Beer & Burger Bites
For a heartier passed appetizer, burger sliders and beer are the perfect addition. Grab them while they’re fresh because these are sure to go fast!
 
Photo by Olivia Leigh Photographie
 
Photo by Tara McMullen; Catering by Food Dudes
11. Loaded Cheese Ball Poppers 
These delicious balls of cheese mixed with bacon, scallion, and diced walnuts will leave your guests craving them weeks after the wedding! 
Recipe by Five Heart Home
12. Little Apple & Cinnamon Cider Cups  
Flawless for a fall wedding – these cups of cider made from hollowed-out miniature apples will spice things up and can be served before or after dinner.   Photo by Best Photography

Wednesday, October 12, 2016

11 Ways To Break With Tradition At Your Wedding

11 Ways To Break With Tradition At Your Wedding
The most important thing to remember when planning your wedding is that this special day is completely your own and there are absolutely NO rules! That being said, you shouldn’t be afraid to break with tradition and get creative. Your wedding is a reflection of the love you and your soon-to-be share, so incorporate your unique style into the event from start to finish. If you can’t stand the bouquet toss or feel like a white wedding dress isn’t for you – then don’t worry about what’s been done before and design a day that is entirely and completely you! Here are some of the most rebellious ways to break tradition on your wedding day:

1. Switch It Up!
Timing is everything at a wedding – but feel free to change the schedule however you see fit! Try switching up the order of the dances or speeches. You may also consider having your cocktail hour before the ceremony instead of before the reception so guests will have time to chat before the “I do’s” and will then be able to focus solely on you during the ceremony!


Photo by Michelle Boyd Photography 
2. Save the Fizz: A Champagne Toast Doesn’t Have to be With Champagne
Traditionally, wedding speeches and toasts are accompanied by a little bit of bubbly. Instead of toasting with glasses of champagne, cheers to your happily-ever-after with a favorite mixed drink or bottle of beer!
 
Photo by Lacie Hansen

Photo by Ryan Ray Photography 
3. Expand Your Registry
Instead of registering for service for 12 or expensive kitchen gadgets – which, let’s be honest, you will probably never use – choose a more personal way for your guests to congratulate you and your spouse. Consider asking for athletic equipment if you’re more outdoorsy, contributing to a dream vacation fund, or donations to your charity of choice. Talk about a great way to spread the love!

Photo by Jose Villa 
4. Make A Strong Statement For Color
It’s true that you can never go wrong with white, but don’t let this stop you from showing your true colors! Be bold and wear a colorful wedding gown if that reflects you who are – it’s your big day!

Dress by Galia Lahav 

Dress by Vera Wang 
5. Rock N’ Roll Down the Aisle
Have you ever envisioned strutting down a red carpet to your favorite jam? Or does the classic “Bridal Chorus” just not fit you and your fiancé’s musical tastes? Whether it be the song that was playing when you first met or another meaningful tune, take this opportunity to do something a little different.

Photo by Jessica Janae Photography

 
Photo by Sara & Rocky Photography 
6. Throw Away The Toss
Some may love the traditional element of the bouquet toss and some may find it down right cheesy. Whichever it may be – do as you please!

Photo by Peaches & Mint
7. Abandon the Toast?
We all know that wedding speeches are an important part of your big day, but they often cause severe anxiety or flat-out embarrassment - especially when done poorly. To save your guests from forever remembering that one bridesmaid who might have had one-too-many drinks before her speech, simply ditch the toasts!

Photo by Josh Gruetzmacher 
8. Cut The Cake Out!
More and more couples today are swapping the traditional tiered wedding cake for other, more fun desserts. Whether it’s a macaron tower, a candy bar, over-the-top milkshakes, or even cookie shots, cake is no longer the only option!

Photo by Monica Wang Photography; Desserts by California Donut; Floral by Fleur de Rye; Event by There Is No Subject

Photo by This Love Of Yours Photography
9. Walk Down the Aisle Hand-In-Hand
Instead of walking down the aisle to meet your handsome groom – consider walking hand-in-hand into your happily ever after. This can also be a great option for same-sex marriages!

Photo by Jenelle Kappe 
10. Shape Your Reception Seating
Although there is nothing wrong with round tables at your reception – this is also a big opportunity to get creative! Align your tables in a zigzag formation, in one big circle, or perhaps even have a single banquet table that stretches down the length of your reception space. There are infinite seating styles to try!

Photo by Gia Canali Photography 
11. Give Up the Guest Book
Choose an innovative alternative to your wedding guest book by allowing your guests to write messages in a bottle! Ask for bucket list recommendations, relationship advice, or their favorite memory of you two. Whatever you choose – make it special.

Photo by Mastin Studio